Looking to meet new people in a fun, low-pressure environment? Join AFFA and the Charleston Lesbians at Bar Polari for our Sapphic Stoplight Party, an evening designed to help our sapphic community members connect, make friends, and maybe even spark a little romance.
We'll provide color-coded bracelets to let others know what you're looking for, so starting conversations feels a little easier.
How It Works
Red = You're here to meet new friends. Whether you're aromantic, asexual, happily partnered, or simply not looking to date, grab a red bracelet and enjoy making new connections.
Yellow = It's complicated! Maybe you're feeling flirty, exploring, in an open relationship, or just open to seeing where the night goes. A yellow bracelet lets others know you're somewhere in between.
Green = Ready to shoot your shot? Whether you're hoping to meet the love of your life or just someone to share a drink with, green means you're open to romantic connections.
No matter which bracelet you choose, everyone is encouraged to be respectful, communicate clearly, and honor one another's boundaries. This event is all about creating a welcoming space where meaningful connections of every kind can happen.
Bar Polari will have your favorite drinks available for purchase, and AFFA representatives will be on hand to welcome you, answer questions, and help you feel at home.
Admission is free.
This is a 21+ event.
Come solo, bring a friend, or gather your crew. However you arrive, we can't wait to see you there!

